God loves you and has a bright future for you. Your life can be a means thru which many can be redeemed thru your act of forgiveness. Fear not, for I am with you; Be not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, and I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. (Isa. 41:10).
4. Rease the Offender - In order for healing to saturate your body, mind and soul, you have to relinquish your will to dwell on the negative. Beloved, never use venting as a means to constiuously bring up how someone hurt you. Obviously, you have not forgiven. You see - our thoughts are powerful. Thus, when you repeatly rehearse those vile events within your mind, you feed anger, bitterness, hostiltity and it turns into hatred. Your heart becomes contaminated, resulting in you becoming oppressed and depresseed, making you unable to enjoy th joy of the Lord which is your strength.
You have to be careful who you share your feelings with. If somone attempts to keep you going around the; "Revolving door of Despair"; politely exuse yourself from their presence. Keep your mind on being restored and fill your days mediating on the word of God. Feed your spirit and strave your flesh which cries out for justice. Activate solutions which move you forward on the road to a progressive life of wholeness. Surround yourself with those who will help you live a victorious life.
5. Don't Let it infect your relationship with God and others - The Lord loves you and desires the very best for you. When bad things happen in your life, please don't blame God. God didn't do this to you although, He may have allowed it to occur. Oftentimes, it was at the hands of the devil who used a broken soul that this injustice was afflicted upon you. Though, you may not understand it, this is when you must rely on and trust in the Lord no matter what.
Beloved - Before any hurt or pain touched your life, it already has pierced the hands of Jesus. He is with you through all the agony. Trust and love Him although He didn't keep you from the hurt. He will take what was meant to break you - to crush your spirit - to utterly destroy you and turn to your good. Always, remember God is good, plentiful in mercy, just and loving.
You are aware that your family and friends loves you. It's part of their job to keep you from going into a deep state of depression. Most assurdely, it's important for family members to be gentle, wise and patient with you. But in no way does this means to allow you to waddle in self-pity asking; Why did this happen to me syndrome? Allow them to spend reasonable amount of time with you while walking you thru this horrendous nightmare. They'll be the shoulder to cry on and ear to listen to when the pain appears so unbearable that you cry our in anguish.
6. Seek Counsel -I suggesst that you speak to your Pastor and the sooner, the better. If you're not afflicted with a church, perphaps, a close friend, sommeone in your family or a professional whose spiritual equipped in bibical principles can be of assistance. They can see from a perspective that you're unable to due to your emotional attachment to the situation. With a fresh revelation from the Lord, they can help you gain godly insight and wisdom to apply that you no longer feel powerless and the need for vengeance.
Are you now ready to let go of the pain of your past and began your transistional journey to becoming restored and healed?
Are you ready to take your life back?
God Loves you! Come...let the Lord heal you!
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